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You are here: BAILII >> Databases >> England and Wales Family Court Decisions (other Judges) >> V, W, X, Y And Z (Children) [2014] EWFC B103 (18 August 2014) URL: http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWFC/OJ/2014/B103.html Cite as: [2014] EWFC B103 |
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SITTING AT THE CROYDON MAGISTRATES' COURT
Barclay Road Croydon Surrey CR9 3NG |
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B e f o r e :
sitting in private
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Re V, W, X, Y and Z (children) |
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Mr Julien Foster for the First Respondent (M)
Mr Stephen Lue for the Second Respondent (F)
Ms Xenia Stavrou for the children (V, W, X, Y and Z)
Hearing Dates: 12th and 13th August 2014
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Crown Copyright ©
MS RECORDER ALISON BROOKS:
(a) Whether I should hold a fact finding hearing in respect of an allegation made by V that she was beaten about her body by her Mother with a belt on 23rd January 2014; and
(b) Whether I should make Supervision Orders in respect of the four younger children, as the Local Authority invites me to do, or a Family Assistance Order, as the parents and Guardian propose.
- She very frequently worked at her mother's factory after school, helping to prepare things / washing up or looking after her brothers while her parents worked, staying until 10 or 11, such that she was not able to prepare for school;
- Her mother sometimes slapped her or hit her with a belt;
- Her dad sometimes backhanded her and once hit her with a belt;
- She felt like she was left out of the family;
- Sometimes she had to eat leftovers away from the family;
- She was largely responsible for looking after her brothers;
- Her Mother had threatened to take her to Africa and leave her there.
- When the parents were asked what they thought would help V, they suggested time with her mother was what she most wanted. Mother also said she would like help to know what she and her husband should do to help V be happier at home and at school, and asked that professionals help them with advice;
- V was assessed to have a high level of personal vulnerability and a limited level of perceived emotional support, in the form of either external or internal resources. This placed her at greater risk of poor personal outcomes unless her circumstances and support structure could help her to achieve changes in her view of herself and others;
- Observation of V's current relationship with her mother during contact showed that Mother was not always aware of her emotional needs;
- V's primary attachment figure was her mother and her separation from her on various occasions, but particularly the time when they were physically very distant, may well have caused her to doubt the reliability of people who are important to her. The experience of being in care was likely to have exacerbated her sense of not being able to rely on her mother in particular to be there for her when she needed it;
- V was by now expressing a desire to return home;
- The most effective intervention for V's parents would be between 4 to 8 sessions of Video Interaction Guidance;
- V would benefit from some family sessions run with her and her parents by an experienced family therapist who would be able to help them think about the roles within the family and what the explicit and unspoken rules had been until now and what they thought they should be from now on.
- Dad was ok (really nice) but she didn't really get on with her mum;
- Mother didn't make her feel wanted;
- Mother didn't have time for her, saying, "Go away, I'm busy" if she needed help with something;
- Mother sometimes excluded her. She gave an example of the whole family out on a walk, she'd be at the back and everyone else would be holding hands and laughing, but if she approached her mother, she would just say, "Go … leave my hand";
- Mother repeatedly hit her over her body with a belt in January (the phone incident);
- Her only chore at home was to hoover her bedroom and keep it tidy.
- V found it difficult to talk about being hit or hurt by anyone and said repeatedly that she didn't want to say why she wasn't happy at home. To answer questions that required her to give negative information, she had to make a physical effort to speak and became quite agitated;
- She seemed more disturbed when talking about feeling that she is not as loved as her siblings than by talking about being hit;
- She did not want to say negative things about adults that they would later find out she had said. She was reluctant to say anything negative about anyone including her parents;
- V was not prepared to say that she does not like her mother but states that she thinks her mother does not like her;
- She feels distanced from all of her siblings, apart from W, with whom she feels she now has a special bond. Her relationships with her siblings changed following her last year away in Africa. She believes that this has come about due to needing to get to know all of her siblings again, having been away for a year, and that W was the one who remembered her best. Consequently V asked to have contact with W only;
- V has stated that she feels she cannot be good and just has a bad part to her. She says that she doesn't know why she is but that she is just rude;
- She is clear she does not want to return home nor have contact with her family. She says that thinking of her family makes her feel uncomfortable and so she avoids doing this.
a) The mother has expressed her unhappiness to V for untidiness, poor personal hygiene and for having failed to tidy her room.
b) The mother has taken at least one of V's library books from her and has failed to inform V's school that she has done so, exposing V to the risk of her getting into trouble at school.
c) The mother took V to Africa in 2012 while V was subject to a supervision order without prior consultation with the local authority and thus, while V was in Africa, the local authority was unable to carry out its statutory functions of advising, assisting and befriending her.
d) The mother left V in Africa in 2012 for a period of approximately one year, this being the third occasion that V had been separated from her family since 2007, the other occasions being in 2007 when V was left in Africa when the mother came to settle in England and in 2011 when V was placed in foster care. In doing so, the mother (a) did not pay proper regard to V's emotional needs; (b) did not show sufficient insight into V's feelings of separation from her family and in particular her siblings.
e) The mother failed to complete the work identified by Sylvia Reyes during the course of the previous proceedings as being essential for the purposes of her being able to provide good enough parenting to V and thus exposed V to the risk of emotional harm through being unable to meet all of V's emotional needs.
f) On 12 February 2014 V told the allocated social worker that she did not wish to return home.
g) The mother has tried to do her best to do what she thinks is right for V but has lacked an understanding of her emotional and developmental needs.
h) It is necessary for trust to be rebuilt between V and her parents.
i) As a result of the siblings' separation from V, they are at risk of suffering significant emotional harm.
(a) The ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child concerned (considered in the light of her age and understanding). V is a 13 year old girl who is able to articulate and express her wishes and feelings. It is clear from school reports that she is performing well above the level of her peers. She has clearly and consistently expressed her wishes and feelings to the allocated social workers and the Guardian that she would like to continue to live with her current foster carer and does not want to return to her parents' care. She has repeatedly stated she does not feel ready to have any form of contact with her parents or indeed any of her siblings, other than W. She has said she is afraid of being returned home against her wishes.
(b) Her physical, emotional and educational needs; V needs to be cared for throughout her childhood by a consistently warm carer who can meet her needs for physical safety, her basic care needs and be available to consistently respond to her emotional cues and needs. She is reported to be thriving in foster care, and her school have noticed positive changes in her presentation. I note she has experienced a lot of instability and upheaval in her life and being separated from her immediate family has been a significant feature throughout her life, from an early age. She desperately needs to be able to settle in a permanent placement and invest in it. She needs to know her birth family are safe and that there is the potential for a resumption of her relationships with their parents and siblings.
(c) The likely effect on her of any change in her circumstances; V hopes to be able to stay with her current foster carer. There is now some doubt about this and I am pleased to hear that the Local Authority is to undertake some work with the foster carer so as to maximize the chances of this happening. There will be an effect on V if she has to change placement, but I judge this to be less upsetting and frightening for her than if she had to go home.
(d) Her age, sex, background and any characteristics of hers which the court considers relevant; I consider V's background, as set out above, to be highly relevant in explaining to a large degree the fractured relationship she has with her parents and indeed her siblings.
(e) Any harm which she has suffered or is at risk of suffering; She has suffered harm as set out in the agreed threshold document referred to above, which I approve.
(f) How capable each of her parents, and any other person in relation to whom the court considers the question to be relevant, is of meeting her needs; Sadly, the parents have demonstrably not been capable of meeting V's needs. The parents have in the recent past asked for information about, and a referral to parenting classes to enable them to develop positive parenting strategies. They have reportedly followed up on information provided by the allocated social worker and made contact with relevant parenting classes in the parents' locality and are to be invited to the next batch of parenting classes. They have indicated a willingness to engage in family therapy. They are to be commended for this, but alas it comes too late for V. She needs decisions to be made about her future care now. I hope in time the parenting classes and therapy will assist them to repair the damage done in their relationship with V and rebuild it.
(g) The range of powers available to the court under this Act in the proceedings in question. I can make a Care Order, a Supervision Order, a Child Arrangements Order or indeed no order.
(a) they agree to undertake a suitable parenting course, as advised by the social worker, to enable them to explore alternative strategies to manage children's behaviour;
(b) the parents ensure the children continue to attend relevant activities at Children's Centres to enable the children's social and language development.
(c) The parents make their home available for social workers' announced and unannounced visits.
(d) The parents ensure they make the children available for contact with V should this be required.
(a) The ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child concerned (considered in the light of his age and understanding). All four children would want, I'm sure, to remain in their parents' care, and to see their sister.
(b) His physical, emotional and educational needs. All four children need to be cared for throughout their childhood by consistently warm carers who can meet their needs for physical safety, their basic care needs and be available to respond to their emotional cues and needs in an environment which does not involve high levels of unpredictability, conflict and abuse. They need their parents to give them positive images of their older sister, and to be encouraged to have contact with her whenever that might be appropriate.
(c) The likely effect on him of any change in his circumstances. There will be no change. Hopefully contact will be introduced with V which will be a positive step for all the children.
(d) His age, sex, background and any characteristics of his which the court considers relevant. All four children have been looked after by their parents all their lives. Their older sister has spent several extended periods of time living away from home, and having little or no meaningful contact with them.
(e) Any harm which he has suffered or is at risk of suffering. All children are reported to be thriving in their parents' care but the circumstances leading up to V's fourth period away from her family, and the fact of her living apart from them, will have caused harm to the children, as set out in the concession threshold document above.
(f) How capable each of his parents, and any other person in relation to whom the court considers the question to be relevant, is of meeting his needs. The parents appear to be meeting the needs of their youngest children on a day to day basis well. The children have a need to be able to think of their older sister positively, and to want to have contact with her when she is ready. They need to know she is not someone to be demonised within the family. The parents will need some support and advice to manage how they keep the memory of V alive and positive for the younger children, and to encourage them to see her when she is ready to do so.
(g) The range of powers available to the court under this Act in the proceedings in question. I can make Supervision Orders, a Family Assistance Order, Child Arrangements Orders or indeed no orders.
(a) Where a Judgment relates to matters set out in Schedule 1 … and a written judgment already exists in a publishable form … the starting point is that permission should be given for the judgment to be published unless there are compelling reasons why [not];
(b) this case falls squarely into Schedule 1(ii), being a case where I have refused to make supervision orders in circumstances where one party urged me to do so;
"This Judgment was delivered in private. The Judge has given leave for this version of the Judgment to be published on condition that (irrespective of what is contained in the Judgment) in any published version of the judgment the anonymity of the children and members of their family must be strictly preserved. In order to strictly preserve the anonymity of these children and members of their family, the identity of the Applicant Local Authority and of any locations in the UK or abroad will not be disclosed in any published version of this Judgment. All persons, including representatives of the media, must ensure that this condition is strictly complied with. Failure to do so will be a contempt of court."
Note 1 In the non-anonymised judgment, the name of the country appears. For the purposes of the anonymised judgment, to protect the identities of the children, reference is made only to the continent. [Back]